If you insist on ignoring my advice, then go ahead and attach the red wire (or whatever your +5V wire is) to Pin 2 - 5v Power. You could have used pin 4, but keeping power and ground separated a bit helps reduce the odds of accidental contact between them.
So here’s the chicken and the egg part: in order to have the /dev/ttyUSB0 (or whatever it shows up as) device available to your serial console software, you’ll need to plug in the USB-TTL adapter. But if you’re also powering the 3B from the adapter, you’ll miss out on the startup info coming out of the serial port; hence my recommendation that you not power from the USB-TTL adapter. Being one to not follow my own advice, I actually do power from the USB-TTL adapter but I also use the Serial program on OS X which can handle the USB device disappearing and reappearing. Did I mention it was expensive? And that there may have been beer involved?